Young Papa~

Greetings oh reader~

Seems like its been a while since I've updated my blog, dunno what to post actually.
Well yesterday it happens that I've encountered a lecture given by Ust Ismail Kamus about marriage. It was in one of my friends WMP playlist I shared in my home local network, since all the musics in my laptop had to be deleted to give way to all the video making and designing things as they eat up a lot of space.

Back to be lecture, he said a jungle of things about marriage in the malay custom. Lots of hilarious jokes and stories, but thats not the issue. He was saying that when we were a child, marrying someone would be nonsense, like eeeiii, gelinya nak kawen....or wut ever. Though as we approach the 20's, everybody thinks of starting a of relationship and then later marriage. Its common and its a normal human instinct.

The problems lies when we see marriage as something like going to a dreampark or sunway lagoon or any other fun-like things. Its not like yayyy..i'm married, oh i'm so happy, and then what..?? Its great to get married and gain love and happiness, but its not a game were you buy a token and play in an arcade for one round, you get happy and then it ends..Instead, your couple will be beside you for rest of your life!! yeah your whole life. So the question rises, are you really prepared physically, mentally and spiritually...!! (it feels weird talking about this marriage stuff). Bottom line, it's what plays in our minds day and night.

Alright, to my post topic. Young Papa is one of the few Japanese drama series that i've watched and really enjoyed. In fact, I watched 2 times, which I think is a great achievement. Its a family-ship based drama where a young man (dun remember his name) marrying a women 10 years older than him and which is also a widow. As usual, in the beginning some conflicts, disagreements and eventually they did get married. Unfortunately and really unfortunate the girl died in a car accident. The result?? he had to raise her two girls and boys, the three children which she had with her former husband. As a common drama plot, each child had their own conflict to adapt with this new young papa. Finally they did it, but in the middle, the part where I really felt touched (thats why I loved the series), the 'real father' came home and wanted the children back. So, he tried to be good again with them, but it appears that all he wanted was the money left by the late mother. So the Young Papa, did something which ended by the father left with the money and the children crying sadly..isk..isk..isk.. I nearly cried. Dunno how to describe it dramatically, see for yourselves and you'll know how it feels like.

Honestly, watching these kind of dramas make me feel like wanna be a papa. And for that reason i've stopped watching such drama's of familyness-like either Japan or Korea to avoid such feelings....bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha...Focus on studies and building self-skills..cehhwaahhh~(terharu gile).

Moral of the story = DO YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO A PAPA??